London Fixed-gear and Single-speed

I was looking at an item on eBay, on my iPhone.
Going to press "Watch this item" I hit "Buy it Now", it took me to the confirmation page and I thought sod it I may as well have it, so pressed confirm.

Now the issue is twofold- number one I am an idiot, and it is the wrong part.
Number two I contacted the seller and explained that it was a mistake, and could I possibly retract the bid, sorry for the inconvenience etc.

He says fine, but wants a fiver for wasting his time, fees etc.

The item price was £20 (with postage of £4, but I'd have picked it up).

Now I have never sold anything through ebay- will relisting it cost him £5?

What would the lfgss community call a fair price in this situation?

Might be better to just have it and pass it on to someone here, perhaps? What is it?

Not a fiver but he could charge you the full amount and you were a duffer so take your punishment :P

No one here would be interested- it's a foglight lense/assembly (waits for pitchforks etc).

That is, to be fair, what I thought. In giving me the chance to get out of it he is doing the decent thing, just wondering if £5 is really what it costs to list the part really.

pay the man whatever he's asking,,, i guess. he hasnt done anything wrong.

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