What is your price range?

I'd go for Goldtec hub, DT swiss competition double butted spokes, black spoke nipples, and then... either Mavic Open Pro or if you're after something a bit different Velocity aerohead although you'll probably have trouble getting them here.

I use the above with Open Pro CD.

I wouldn't for anything too bling if it's your first wheel. My first wheels weren't that great compared to the ones I build now.