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Originally Posted by Pistanator Now I don't know about you but if I joined a forum and conducted that kind of behaviour whether intentional or not I'd cut my losses and fuck off. Difference is my behaviour is aimed at one person, not a whole community | |
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| | @ Pistanator, It's a shame it didn't end there. @ Torpid, Why would you tell people that. Firstly I don't give a shit what's happened to you in your life. I don't know you from a stranger on the street. Secondly, and please pay attention to this bit. It's a fucking quote. |
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| | #154 | |
| | Quote: And ask yourself this...if bad behaviour is only aimed at one person does that make it acceptable? Some might say that was very cowardly | |
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| | I'd actually like to meet this Torpid(your real name is?) character over a pint as he is clearly an odd one. I'd like to find out what it is that makes you tick. Your hobbies, interests, career - you know, just getting to know someone properly rather than putting in hours and hours of bullshit internet shite and not actually doing anything constructive You clearly have several, long running deepset issues that you need to overcome. You can see that all of us have several social drinks meetings at various times and locations all over London. Why not pop along Pistanator - Graham |
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Why am I not feeling all warm inside then? | |
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For the most part it hasn't been very constructive, but I have gained some insight into some the attitudes of many members in a very short period of time. That I actually find very helpful. | |
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Start the quiz: 1. do you find yourself getting regularly flamed on forums? Yes: go to question 2. No: go to question 8. 2. Does this type of response appear to be limited to you: are you being singled out? Yes: go to question 3. No: go to question 8. 3. Do you think that it's possible that there is something that you do that causes this response? Yes: go to question 4. No: go to question 8. 4. do you know what this is? Yes: go to question 7 No: go to question 5. 5. If you've concluded that you write (apparently innocent, but) provocative posts in order to raise aspects of your life that haven't gone well, in order to cause people to be hostile to you, top marks. You're halfway there. Do you know why you do this? Yes: go to question 7. No: go to question 6. 6. I recommend a book by oliver james, called "they fuck you up". It's about how the lack of nurture in a family unit causes children to grow up seeking relationships that mimic their early environment, because these are the relationships that they feel safe in. When they can't always find them, they bend the circumstances or project on to the people they're interacting with in order to create these situations. 7. Do you know that you can change how you behave, by bringing your subconscious mind in to your conscious self? 8. LFGSS or any other forum is not the place to learn these skills from. It may be the place to practice when you work out why this is happening, but in the interim you should consider other avenues of social interaction. In all genuineness, can I suggest contacting samaritans, or finding a therapist, as you can improve yourself and get over the emotional scarring that your posts clearly indicate that you've suffered. Fred. | |
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and remember jesus christ was also very misunderstood. | |
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